Conversation with xxeverydaylove at 5/30/2008 8:06:11 AM on jetneterik (aim)
(8:06:15 AM) jetneterik: good morning
(8:06:23 AM) xx everyday love: Good morning.
(8:06:35 AM) jetneterik: to early
(8:06:47 AM) xx everyday love: =]
(8:07:03 AM) jetneterik: i have a dozen or so cd
(8:07:06 AM) jetneterik: for you of music 
(8:07:12 AM) jetneterik: i forgot to tell you last night
(8:08:37 AM) xx everyday love: Seriously?
(8:08:43 AM) jetneterik: yep
(8:08:47 AM) xx everyday love: No way!
(8:08:50 AM) xx everyday love: I'm so cised!
(8:09:09 AM) jetneterik: been having my cmoputer burn all 360 songs all night
(8:09:17 AM) xx everyday love: Haha. AHHH.
(8:09:19 AM) xx everyday love: So cool.
(8:09:22 AM) xx everyday love: THANK YOU.
(8:09:29 AM) jetneterik: :)
(8:10:18 AM) xx everyday love: I'm so cised to listen to them! =]
(8:10:40 AM) jetneterik: what im gonna do is give you the cd's that has all the music for your cd player / car
(8:10:42 AM) jetneterik: and then one dvd
(8:10:53 AM) xx everyday love: One dvd?
(8:10:55 AM) jetneterik: that has everything on the dvd for car
(8:11:01 AM) jetneterik: for your computer*
(8:11:13 AM) xx everyday love: Oh. Mkay. Thanks!
(8:11:24 AM) xx everyday love: Really.
(8:11:26 AM) jetneterik: easier then swapping cd's every 2 min 
(8:11:36 AM) jetneterik: its np at all
(8:11:39 AM) jetneterik: music is meant to be shared
(8:11:46 AM) xx everyday love: Yes.
(8:11:50 AM) xx everyday love: Very nice of you.
(8:12:19 AM) jetneterik: question for you
(8:12:32 AM) jetneterik: (if my thoughts aren't coordinated its because i'm not awake yet truly)
(8:13:01 AM) jetneterik: one of my friends is going through some difficulties asking a girl out and I was wondering if you would be willing to talk to him
(8:13:24 AM) xx everyday love: Sure. No problem. =] What's his name?
(8:13:28 AM) jetneterik: Michael
(8:13:32 AM) xx everyday love: Sure.
(8:13:47 AM) jetneterik: his sn is turbo1989shadow
(8:14:10 AM) jetneterik: we talked about it all last night
(8:14:28 AM) jetneterik: but i think him getting a perspective that is way outside our group of friends
(8:14:38 AM) jetneterik: as i think the girl is in our group of friends, not really sure
(8:14:48 AM) xx everyday love: It says he's not online...
(8:14:52 AM) jetneterik: ya he isn't
(8:14:56 AM) xx everyday love: Oh.
(8:14:57 AM) xx everyday love: Okay...
(8:15:13 AM) xx everyday love: Yeah, I understand.
(8:15:14 AM) jetneterik: should be on in a few hours or tonight
(8:15:28 AM) jetneterik: i've always found, a viewpoint outside the crowd is best
(8:15:35 AM) xx everyday love: I'm not sure I'll be on tonight. I'm going to something called MHStival.
(8:15:47 AM) xx everyday love: Phone would be probably be easier...if he would be willing?
(8:15:53 AM) jetneterik: i'll ask him
(8:15:57 AM) jetneterik: if he wants do
(8:16:04 AM) jetneterik: can i give him your cell?
(8:16:57 AM) xx everyday love: To let me know if he wants to actually talk to me.
(8:17:24 AM) jetneterik: kk
(8:17:34 AM) jetneterik: i mentioned it last night and he seemed to be interested
(8:17:42 AM) jetneterik: he told me I better not be match making
(8:17:46 AM) xx everyday love: Oh. Thats nice of you. 
(8:17:46 AM) jetneterik: which i'm not
(8:17:52 AM) xx everyday love: Yeah.
(8:17:57 AM) xx everyday love: As I'm dating Daniel...=]
(8:18:00 AM) jetneterik: yep :)
(8:18:06 AM) xx everyday love: That's cool.
(8:18:12 AM) jetneterik: i don't match make
(8:18:13 AM) xx everyday love: He really wants to talk to someone he's never met?
(8:18:15 AM) jetneterik: after steve and lauren failed
(8:18:25 AM) jetneterik: he might, i'm not sure
(8:18:35 AM) jetneterik: i like getting outside perspectives, so i always ask strangers ;)
(8:18:43 AM) xx everyday love: Aw.
(8:18:49 AM) jetneterik: not sure what he will do 
(8:18:57 AM) xx everyday love: Yeah.
(8:19:02 AM) xx everyday love: That's cool. Whatever he's comfortable with.
(8:19:09 AM) jetneterik: i have a question for you that I asked him, and I am always curious to find out what people think
(8:19:15 AM) jetneterik: do you think I am a social person?
(8:19:53 AM) jetneterik: or socially comfortable person
(8:20:47 AM) xx everyday love: Not initially. I think you feel more comfortable with people coming up to you first...To make the conversation. Then, you reciprocate the action and only then, are you social. Sometimes you become a little bit too friendly (which I'm not sure if you notice) which comes off as flirting...only with girls, of course. 
(8:25:10 AM) xx everyday love: Sorry. The internet was being weird.
(8:25:12 AM) jetneterik: np
(8:25:13 AM) xx everyday love: Did you get my response?
(8:25:15 AM) jetneterik: ype
(8:25:16 AM) jetneterik: yep*
(8:25:22 AM) jetneterik: i think you have me down pretty well in that statement
(8:25:36 AM) xx everyday love: I'm a really observant person.
(8:25:38 AM) jetneterik: would you believe me if i said i am a HUGE introvert
(8:25:46 AM) xx everyday love: Yes.
(8:25:47 AM) jetneterik: that social situations scare the crap out of me
(8:25:55 AM) jetneterik: and that I have no idea how to handle myself 
(8:26:01 AM) xx everyday love: Introverts do not only entail that.
(8:26:36 AM) xx everyday love: Being an introvert also suggest that you get energy from yourself and not being around others. While extroverts get their energy from being in social situations and other people.
(8:26:44 AM) jetneterik: yep that is very true
(8:26:45 AM) xx everyday love: In that sense, I am very much an introvert.
(8:26:46 AM) jetneterik: it drains me
(8:27:09 AM) jetneterik: being in groups of people scares me being 100% honest
(8:27:19 AM) xx everyday love: You shouldn't be...
(8:27:32 AM) jetneterik: but i force myself into the situation because I know i'll enjoy myself even if I am completely drained
(8:27:48 AM) jetneterik: after i get together w/ my high school friends
(8:27:56 AM) jetneterik: i'm utterly exhausted, but completely content
(8:27:56 AM) xx everyday love: Yes, people, especially young people, don't really put on their true face...but most people really aren't scary/mean. It's just that everyone is different.
(8:27:59 AM) xx everyday love: =]
(8:28:05 AM) jetneterik: ya :)
(8:28:09 AM) jetneterik: wednesday
(8:28:14 AM) jetneterik: i could barely do the bible study
(8:28:18 AM) xx everyday love: Really?
(8:28:20 AM) jetneterik: ya
(8:28:33 AM) xx everyday love: Hm.
(8:28:35 AM) jetneterik: another thing that scares my greatly is singing in front of the church
(8:28:47 AM) jetneterik: but what i've learned
(8:28:54 AM) jetneterik: is that if i go into the situation enough
(8:28:56 AM) xx everyday love: I get nervous in front of an audience.
(8:29:01 AM) jetneterik: my tolerence increases
(8:29:20 AM) jetneterik: and that is good for me, but also makes me more open and able to handle group situations
(8:29:26 AM) xx everyday love: Exactly!
(8:29:32 AM) jetneterik: also. I never notice that i'm flirting
(8:29:34 AM) jetneterik: until its to late
(8:29:40 AM) xx everyday love: Thats how I used to be.
(8:30:01 AM) jetneterik: well i flirt a grey line between flirting and being what i see is a good friend
(8:30:31 AM) jetneterik: and because i see a good friend as someone who is always there for others
(8:30:34 AM) jetneterik: and always willing to help
(8:30:43 AM) jetneterik: i just have to be super careful
(8:30:46 AM) xx everyday love: Yes.
(8:30:48 AM) xx everyday love: I agree.
(8:30:50 AM) jetneterik: to not cross that line like I did with you
(8:30:54 AM) jetneterik: which i am sorry about
(8:30:55 AM) jetneterik: :(
(8:31:02 AM) xx everyday love: Its a difficult boundary to learn and put up.
(8:31:05 AM) xx everyday love: And no problem.
(8:31:08 AM) jetneterik: its up now though :)
(8:31:18 AM) xx everyday love: =]
(8:32:58 AM) jetneterik: and i don't think i've crossed the line again 
(8:33:10 AM) jetneterik: if i do just tell me please
(8:33:12 AM) xx everyday love: No. You haven't.
(8:33:14 AM) xx everyday love: I will.
(8:33:18 AM) jetneterik: thanks :)
(8:33:26 AM) jetneterik: now if only all women were like you
(8:33:30 AM) jetneterik: and honest
(8:33:35 AM) xx everyday love: Aw. Thank you.
(8:33:42 AM) jetneterik: 90% of issues between men and women wouldn't exist
(8:33:49 AM) xx everyday love: True.
(8:33:59 AM) xx everyday love: But eh.
(8:34:16 AM) xx everyday love: There's always gonna be issues...
(8:34:19 AM) jetneterik: ya
(8:35:01 AM) jetneterik: i was scared i had ruined our friendship honestly
(8:35:19 AM) jetneterik: that is why i acted like i did cuz i freaked 
(8:35:29 AM) xx everyday love: But you didn't.
(8:35:38 AM) xx everyday love: I wanted you to undersetand where I was coming from.
(8:35:52 AM) jetneterik: i think i have a decent understanding now
(8:36:00 AM) xx everyday love: I agree.
(8:36:03 AM) jetneterik: cuz i realized how I was coming off
(8:36:07 AM) jetneterik: and it wasn't appropriate
(8:36:12 AM) jetneterik: and the fact that I knew on top of that
(8:36:15 AM) xx everyday love: Yep. 
(8:36:16 AM) jetneterik: and didn't change
(8:36:25 AM) jetneterik: i needed "shock treatment" to get my head back on right
(8:36:38 AM) xx everyday love: Sometimes, thats just what people need.
(8:36:45 AM) xx everyday love: The truth in their face before they change.
(8:36:50 AM) jetneterik: it worked
(8:37:15 AM) jetneterik: thank you
(8:37:31 AM) xx everyday love: You're welcome.
(8:37:35 AM) xx everyday love: Ben did that to me.
(8:37:39 AM) xx everyday love: And I changed - ALOT.
(8:37:50 AM) xx everyday love: I've become such a better person.
(8:38:29 AM) jetneterik: and i think i have to, that grey line is a bit darker now for me
(8:38:40 AM) xx everyday love: Good. I'm glad.
(8:38:58 AM) jetneterik: gah
(8:39:01 AM) jetneterik: itunes is acting up
(8:39:04 AM) jetneterik: got through half the cd's
(8:39:12 AM) jetneterik: and its not liking the next batch of songs
(8:39:24 AM) xx everyday love: Eh. It's okay.
(8:39:26 AM) xx everyday love: Lol.
(8:39:30 AM) xx everyday love: It'll work eventually.
(8:39:39 AM) jetneterik: 103 songs are done :)
(8:39:50 AM) xx everyday love: Woot!
(8:41:07 AM) jetneterik: i think
(8:41:10 AM) jetneterik:  my cd burner overheated :P
(8:41:22 AM) xx everyday love: Quite possibly.
(8:41:24 AM) jetneterik: ya it needs a break
(8:41:43 AM) xx everyday love: ...
(8:42:00 AM) jetneterik: i'll wait till i get home from work
(8:42:05 AM) xx everyday love: Mkay. 
(8:42:06 AM) jetneterik: its been burning cds for the last 8 hours
(8:42:08 AM) xx everyday love: Good deal.
(8:42:22 AM) jetneterik: ok i have 3 min then i g2g to work
(8:42:25 AM) jetneterik: gotta get ready
(8:42:29 AM) xx everyday love: K.
(8:42:30 AM) jetneterik: i'll bb around 930ish
(8:42:34 AM) xx everyday love: Talk to you later
(8:42:36 AM) jetneterik: ttyl
(8:42:57 AM) jetneterik: and thank you again, and congrats on daniel that is really good  news :)
(8:43:03 AM) xx everyday love: =]
(8:47:45 AM) jetneterik: bye